What are the drawbacks shared by Enneagram Types 3 and 9?

Threes and Nines rely too much on external approval and pursue non-meaningful goals just for other´s acceptance. Besides, they can have difficulty attending to their deepest feelings, which can make them complacent, disengaged, and dissociated.…

What depresses/irritates an LII (INTj) person?

According to Udalova E., the most difficult thing for LII types is to endure force pressure and aggression from others. They cannot keep their territory in the presence of a “pushing” partner. Power methods, strict…

What are the drawbacks of being an ENFP person?

ENFPs think that a part of them is separated from their experience. Although they have intense feelings, they have the risk of losing contact with their emotions. They don't like subordination, and even though they…

What should I do with my kid when they get anxious about an activity?

According to Jordan Peterson, if one exposes their inhibited child continually to the things that make them anxious in measured doses, their psychophysiological temperament can be transformed. This exposition is more effective than making them…

Is it useful to try to be different regarding one’s big-5 traits?

Learning how to activate propensities can provide us a wide range of social tool kit. For example, an agreeable person can learn to be disagreeable so that people can't push them around and a disagreeable…

What stresses an Enneagram Type 9 parent?

Parents with the Type Nine or peacekeeper personality find it stressful to "set priorities and make timely decisions." They find it challenging when they must decide between their work and children or take the side…