What are some of the negative shared traits of Enneagram Types 3 and 9?

Some of the negative shared traits of Threes and Nines are that they depend too much on external approval. Therefore,  they pursue goals that hold no real interest or personal meaning, just for gaining acceptance…

How does Enneagram Type 9 could handle Type 8 people at their worst?

Nines need to learn how to speak from themselves when Eights are mistreating them because Eights respect people who stand up for themselves and don’t respect those who don’t; withdrawing will only fuel their aggression…

Why is Enneagram Type 8 attracted to Type 9?

Eights feel attraction towards Nines because of their calmness, steadiness, generosity, stability, and acceptance.  Also, Eights like being around people who they are comfortable to hang out with. Certainly, Eights can have big egos and…

What are the drawbacks shared by Enneagram Types 3 and 9?

Threes and Nines rely too much on external approval and pursue non-meaningful goals just for other´s acceptance. Besides, they can have difficulty attending to their deepest feelings, which can make them complacent, disengaged, and dissociated.…

Why is it important to consider the viewpoints of people opposing to yours?

According to Jordan Peterson, opposite people will not only tell you things you don’t know but also show you ways to see the world in a way you don’t see it. Besides, they'll have a…